by Sally Matheny
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Trusting God Through a Miscarriage
(photo by Pixabay) |
October is National Pregnancy and Infant Loss Awareness Month. In remembrance of that, I want to share with you a portion of my own miscarriage journey. Perhaps you can relate. Hopefully, you'll be encouraged.
Not even the startling, cold lubricant squeezed onto my belly could stifle my excited chatter.
I was on the verge of being the first one to hear a
great secret—the gender of our third baby!
Earlier that day, I had taken our seven-and nine-year
old daughters to a sitter. They wanted to go with me for my 12-week check up. I told them the following month’s appointment would be an ultrasound. I assured them they could go with me, and their daddy,
to see the baby growing inside my tummy then.
Now, here I was, by myself about to hear the big reveal
earlier than expected. Finding it difficult to locate the tiny baby with his stethoscope,
the doctor asked how I felt about an ultrasound to see if I was as far along as
we thought.
I happily agreed but told him he’d have to do another
one next month because I’d promised my girls. Plus, my husband was out of town
on business, so there was no way he could get there in time to see today’s
ultrasound.
So, I felt rather special since I was about to receive some exciting news before everyone else. What a nice gift after enduring three months of nausea!
“If I’m not as far along as we expected, will you still
be able to tell if it’s a boy or girl?” I asked.
“Maybe. We’ll see,” the tech said as she slid the probe
around.
A few seconds later, she added, “There’s the baby.”
“Awww, it looks like it’s waving,” I said, noticing five,
distinct, widespread fingers held in front of a profiled head and nose.
My heart pounded, waiting for her to tell me the big
news. Boy? Or girl?
A few more swipes. She announces on her way out the door, “Okay. The doctor
will be in to see you in just a minute.”
Odd.
Maybe the tech isn’t allowed to say anything and has to wait for the doctor.
A few minutes later, the doctor comes in and repeats
the same movements over my belly. It’s awfully quiet in the room until the
doctor grunts a low, short, “hmm.”
I feel my enthusiasm fade in the dimly lit room. Something isn’t right.