by Sally Matheny
The Perils of a Pastor's Wife |
Growing up, I remember a variety of wives serving
alongside their pastor-husbands. On
Sundays, I noticed their kindness and smiling faces. I remember their
immaculate appearance—hair teased and sprayed in place, crisply ironed skirts
with coordinating jackets, hose, and shiny high heeled shoes that matched their
purses. As I child, I thought these women were as polished as the pearls on
their necks.
Of course, as I matured, I realized the life of a
pastor’s wife is not as pristine as I’d imagined. While she finds joy in
serving alongside her husband, the pastor’s wife also discovers she’s
frequently in the midst of battle.
Nan Jones knows this all too well, and has penned a
wonderful book, The Perils of a Pastor’s
Wife. Chapter by chapter, Nan discusses various perils including ones on meeting
expectations, battle fatigue, anxiety and fear, and a strained marriage. Nan exchanges
her opaque, pearl necklace for a crystal one so readers can clearly see her
heart and relate to her experiences.
“Nan offers a hand to hold, aha moments of healing, and
soul-strengthening biblical insight.” She takes you straight to God’s Word for
hope and encouragement. Also, you’ll find sprinkles of humor as you learn how
God worked in Nan’s life, even through persimmon-colored linoleum.