by Sally Matheny
When I was growing up, I don’t remember getting out of
something just because I was not “comfortable” with it.
For example, at age nine, stacking firewood in the heat of August was not an enjoyable event for me. I didn’t like the yellow jackets, the heat, or the hard labor.
However, my daddy thought it would be good “character-building.” I was not given a say in the matter. When my father said, “Let’s go stack some wood,” I did it. I’m sure I suggested a wait on a cooler day or asked how we might avoid bee stings.
However, on this, and other occasions, my parents ultimately deemed it important to push me out of my comfort zone.
Pushing Children Out of Their Comfort Zones |
For example, at age nine, stacking firewood in the heat of August was not an enjoyable event for me. I didn’t like the yellow jackets, the heat, or the hard labor.
However, my daddy thought it would be good “character-building.” I was not given a say in the matter. When my father said, “Let’s go stack some wood,” I did it. I’m sure I suggested a wait on a cooler day or asked how we might avoid bee stings.
However, on this, and other occasions, my parents ultimately deemed it important to push me out of my comfort zone.