by Sally Matheny
How Should We Prepare Our Children for War? |
Regardless
of where we stand on the issue of the military draft, it is the law that our
sons, and possibly soon, even our daughters, register with the Selective
Service when they turn eighteen years old.
Very few
want, or expect, a military draft to occur. But what if…
What if the time comes when we are informed our children will definitely serve in the
military? Some of us would have years to prepare, some would have only days.
My son is a young teen. One day he will have to register with the
Selective Service. It’s something I prefer not to think about. And yet, if I
knew for a fact he would be called up in a few years, how would I prepare
him for war?
I’m not military-trained. I consider myself a good shot if I hit the dirt within two feet of my target. I’m not the best candidate for teaching him anything involving artillery. I’m just a mom. One who says, “Be careful” every time the boy steps a foot outside—even if he’s just retrieving eggs from the chicken coop. I’m the one who constantly reminds him to be sweet, be kind, and be respectful. Oh, and to reflect Jesus. Always strive to reflect Jesus.
All those
reminders will eventually melt into time and merge into the fast lane. Suddenly,
a day could arrive when we must send our children off to defend what is
good and to fight what is evil. With that in mind, how should we prepare our children for war?
Train Physically
I’ve got issues. Don’t we all? But I should not allow my physical
limitations to set boundaries for my son. If he goes to fight in a war,
I want him to be strong. And fast. Very fast.
How often do
we use our limitations as excuses? In the heat of battle, we don't want our kids
to give up their mission because they’ve learned to say, “I’m too tired” or “This hurts to much.” How often do we model ways for them to push through
discomfort?
Just as
important, is educating them in the value of rest. Most don’t have this
problem! But there are some who lean toward the other extreme, to the point of
sheer exhaustion. Attempting to give 100% in ten different areas produces less than desirable results.
No matter
what our physical capabilities are, we need to set an example to our children of how to take care of our bodies. Not only our bodies, but also we must promote good health for the mind and soul.
Whatever we do, it must promote strength and good health. |
Train Academically
Training the
mind is as essential as training the body. My son may argue and question why he
must learn certain academic subjects. He questions their importance. My
answer will always be the same.
“You don’t
know what God has in mind for you.”
We may know
our strengths and talents. We can pursue a certain career path, but ultimately
only God knows what our future holds. Therefore, it is only wise to do our best to learn all we can today.
A child may think he'll never have use of algebraic formulas while sitting in the trenches of battle.
However, the lessons he learns about not giving up until a solution is found will
benefit him.
Writing an inspiring
essay may not prevent danger on the front lines. But knowing how to communicate
effectively might.
Studying history provides
helpful information on past mistakes and successes. Knowledge begets power.
Power begets change.
Train
Spiritually
However, not
all those in power bring about noble change. It is fine to be zealous, as long
as the purpose is good. (Galations 4:12)
Training the
heart is vital to fighting evil. Discernment is crucial. The only way to know what is right, is to
understand God’s righteousness. We must diligently teach our children the Truth
of God’s Holy Word.
We cannot
simply recite scripture. The way we live our lives must exude the fragrance of
Christ in such a way it attracts our children to Him. Words do not ring true if
they do not fit our character.
God’s truths are a direct result of His great love. Teach that.
And if our
children are heading off to war, wouldn’t they need to know the power of
prayer? Mercy, yes. And the power of forgiveness? Absolutely. Because only then
could they also know true peace and ultimately joy.
The Truth Is, Our Children Are Going
to War
It does not matter whether your children are male or female.
One day, every child will be called into battle. Hopefully, it will not be a physical battle. Those are easier to prevent. Spiritual battles are a different matter.
The fight may not be against the armies of an aggressive tyrant, but against the evil troops of
Satan.
Our kids may
not be in tanks and trenches, but rather on the front lines of the world, where
their faith and convictions are constantly under assault.
Stand firm, and fight. |
They will
not fight with firearms, but with the Sword of Truth.
Don’t fool
yourself into thinking it will be easy. There will be struggles and suffering.
How old is
your child now? How much time do you have left before the unexpected happens
and he is pulled into battle?
Don’t wait
until that moment and trust someone else to train him. Don’t stand helplessly on
the sidelines.
Cry out to God to help you overcome your limitations. Beg Him to
strengthen you and your family, in mind, body, and spirit.
Grab your own Sword
and learn how to use it wisely so you can train the next generation.
You have the power to come alongside your child, encouraging him to be strong and courageous. Together, stand firm, and fight.
One of the reasons we went camping this weekend...to prove to ourselves that we can survive in different types of circumstances, to proof to ourselves that we can come together to solve problems, to prove to ourselves that we can live with things we don't think we can, to prove to ourselves that we can keep hiking when we feel like we can't, to remind ourselves of God's majesty by being in His creation instead of just inside a house or a city or a building we work in. I think I learned the most of the whole family from our camping adventure!!
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