by Sally Matheny
Friends Stick By You When You're In or Out of Hot Water |
When our first daughter got married, I thought it wouldn’t take long to clean a reception venue designated for 155 people, especially if friends chipped in on the effort.
My assumption was wrong on two accounts. I assumed people
would stay and help with the clean up. Our friends assumed we had a clean-up
team in place, and since they weren’t asked to stay, they did not. It was my
fault.
Plus, I should have realized if I find a home for five difficult to clean, then a space for 155 would be challenging! Nonetheless, God was merciful and we completed the job with a few family members.
Plus, I should have realized if I find a home for five difficult to clean, then a space for 155 would be challenging! Nonetheless, God was merciful and we completed the job with a few family members.
But, when our second daughter began planning her
wedding reception, I knew we had to do things a bit differently. My aches
and pains had increased greatly in the three years since the last wedding. I’d
need more assistance on all fronts.
Three relatives and a friend were coaxed into helping
decorate for the reception while another friend and I worked on floral
centerpieces and bouquets. Two more families helped with the baking. My
wonderful mother took charge of pressing all the table linens. Thankful for my dear friends and family, I thought I had all
the reception bases covered. Right down to the servers and a clean-up crew.
Three servers were designated for the buffet and two
other people were in charge of clearing dirty dishes from the tables. Two more delegates
were to run the rented china and glassware through the commercial dishwasher. Impressed
with my planning, I imagined a beautiful, snag-free reception.
Eh. Even the best-laid tables can go awry.